We are starting soon, waiting for the referral to go through the. The last time we went to a councilor H had recently ended an affair that I didn’t find out about until almost 9 years later. It was a completely pointless waste of time and money. I felt like he was dragging me there to get fixed without telling me what his problem was and he wasn’t interested in mine. Things did gradually improve after we stopped going but he clearly didn’t get what he needed out of it either because he went and did it again 9 years later. This time I know exactly why I’m there and want to get as much out of it as I can.
I have no idea how this works or what to expect,