I had a bunch at first. No passwords (or I had them) on phone, iPad, tablets, iMac, etc. Find friends app was installed, and location services were never to be turned off. It has some bad spots in some places, and in the early days, if it couldn't find her, I would FaceTime her to verify where she was. She quit her job (where she and her AP worked) the next day. If she went anywhere, she let me know before she left, when she got there, when she was on her way home, and when she got home. She can't go into the store where she worked and he still does. The friends she had at that job, she can no longer communicate with. She met those friends and her AP all at the same time. They had only known each other for the 6 months of her affair. They all knew what she was doing at the time, and I refused to have any of them in my life.
Most of those are still in place, and will be forever. But I don't make her check in with me when she goes somewhere, even though she does just to make me feel safe when I'm away on business. Now most aren't there because she cheated. They are there because we are married and should need to hide anything. We both have each other's passwords to everything. We can both look on friend finder at where the other is at any time, because there is nothing to hide. Those friends from her job are gone, and will never be back.
I think you demand as much or as many actions for transparency as YOU need, you are the BS. If they refuse anything, well then that is pretty telling. If my wife had refused any of them, we would be divorced by now.
Male BS, D-day July 2015, trying to stay out of the dark.....