Update: the deacons, the church leadership, and Mrs. Pastor have all been notified of the pastors and my wife affair. They requested all the evidence I have in which I forwarded to them. I don't know the reaction of mrs. Pastor but I can imagine. I already planned on attending another church but they did suggest I not attend this morning. Our kids have been trying to get a hold of my wife she hasn't responded. I'm hoping and thinking that she reached out to her one friend at work Who also was betrayed by her husband at the same time that I betrayed my wife.
I personally appreciate everyone that has been so kind, compassionate, caring, and even critical at times towards me and everyone involved. This does not detour me in my endeavors of restoring my marriage. Like I asked on a Nother post, "When does the fat lady sing?" I'm praying that she has duct tape and superglue to her face so that She cannot sing.
I just read this post. It's hard keeping up with what's going on with this situation because it's on two different forums. I am so glad you took this to the correct people. You've done your part, now it's in their hands. If you wish to respond to anything I've posted, please do it in this forum not the other one.
Do you feel better knowing you did the right thing?