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It's not possible. We moved here a year before he started his affair. I gave up my home of 27 years and all my neighbors, my flowers, trick or treat, neighborhood children basically my whole life. We moved to country so I had to give up going to gym before work and walking the paths. So it's kind of a double whammy I also gave up my security, safety and loving my husband. He took it all and then threw it away.
We also moved to a different house during my wife’s affair, I bought her the dream home she had always wanted. Little did I know she was actively cheating on me. If there is anything positive about it, my wife chose to confess what she had done at our old house (which we still owned, but it was vacant). She did this because did this because there were no close neighbors, and the kids were at our new home. She knew it was going to be bad. Sounds smart right? Well. I think it was pretty dumb as well. She woefully underestimated my reaction. To say I went ape-$hit would be the understatement of the century. She had a lot of faith in her belief that I wouldn’t hurt her. A lot more faith than she should have. No neighbors could hear me as I raged and punched doors and holes in the walls (in the house “I” not “we” had spent 4 months fixing up to sell 🙄). I have a concealed carry license and was armed at the time. My wife is small, I have about 100 lbs on her. I could have done anything to her and there was nobody that would have heard anything, no one to call for help. I never laid a finger on her, and had no desire to that night. But I can certainly see, after experiencing that hell how some people would. I’m not saying it’s right, but I do understand it. Until that night, I never understood “crimes of passion”. I understand very well now how and why they happen. The only desire I had that night was to never see my wife again, and to go to her AP’s house and .........., well I won’t go there. Luckily for both of us, he was out of state for 2 months for work. I have zero doubt why my wife chose that particular time to confess since she had ended it a month prior. To this day I’m not sure who she was trying to save, me or him. Maybe both? Lord, if I could have found him that night, I would very likely been in prison right now.
Male BS, D-day July 2015, trying to stay out of the dark.....