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Jamie123
I made a choice today, no more spying because it's killing me! I miss myself and my happiness, I feel like I've gotten to the point where I don't care anymore, let him cheat! It's been a year since I've found out and I have spent more time caring if he's cheating then caring about myself! 
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anthropoidape
Jamie123 wrote:
I made a choice today, no more spying because it's killing me! I miss myself and my happiness, I feel like I've gotten to the point where I don't care anymore, let him cheat! It's been a year since I've found out and I have spent more time caring if he's cheating then caring about myself! 


*applause*
Maybe it is okay, maybe it will be okay.

BS, d-day Feb 2017, 16 mth affair.
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Reddog
Hi Tapered,
I'm impressed you have hung in there all this time. I have been at it about six months. The lies and indifference to my feelings. Wow what a ride. If I had stuck it out for three years I think just for a little while more I would hang and see what these two cretins will do next. My situation is bad and getting worse. My WS blames it all on me even what happened in a previous marriage. She is so volatile in is scary to talk to her. I don't know where this will end but I will be standing when the end comes
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minnie16
I Understand your point, but doesn’t that defeat the purpose? If the WS knows he is being checked on, he will carefully cover his tracks. A spy device would be used when you think that he may be deceiving you. If he knows you’re watching him, he’ll find ways around it.
D day June, 2016
ws affair: 18 months sexual affair plus 2 years emotional affair after. Ow 20 yrs old; WS 60
live in Texas
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minnie16
anthropoidape wrote:


*applause*

i agree. .. i hope to get there too
D day June, 2016
ws affair: 18 months sexual affair plus 2 years emotional affair after. Ow 20 yrs old; WS 60
live in Texas
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