Had a great talk with my spouse about her affair and how it has made me feel about my own sexually. We have hashed out quite a bit and for the first time really felt connected sexually last night with out any feelings of inadequacy.
Now onto bigger stuff. We are currently attending counseling, but it's hard for her to open. She has always been like this, but not she sees that she needs to work on opening up to me. Does anyone have an affair recovery couple questionairre to help each other look to the future both immediate and long term. I could probably come up with one. But an example would be great.
I found this website: affairrecovery.com It has a 7 day "bootcamp" with questions for individuals and couples to help them with recovery. It is free.