My 4 daughters have told their dad that they will not accept his AP who now lives with him in our family home after he kicked us out. (Now denies kicking us out) 2 months after DDay. His reply was "he was not giving up the chance to spend the rest of his life with her. So if that means not having a relationship with his kids then that's up to them to choose to accept or not accept her"
She was married with no kids so.she doesn't have to worry about these problems. (She's only 26 and he's 46 )
Hence the kids have not seen their dad for 6 months and of course it's all my fault . Also won't pay for anything because they refuse to talk to him
What is going on in his mind I have no clue??
Is this a reaction to the situation. I don't know? All I keep thinking is how does a WS get so involved with someone that they can turn on their own kids??
Strange thing is he Hates the kids seeing him with her( we live in a small town)
She's closer to our oldest daughters age rather than his!! No wonder he's embarrassed
I am so sorry you and your girls are dealing with this horrific situation but it sounds like you are showing him you are in control. He is in a deep fog, would u go back to him if he came to his senses and realized he was wrong?
I don't know what in my husband clicked a little bit but I know having our children not accept him in this situation is very hard for him. When he was deep in his fog he didn't care what he said to me or the I kids but he said and did sooo many mean things. I also don't know why but a lot of those things he doesn't remember (they didn't hurt him so why should he right). In your situation I can't believe that the OW would actually be okay with him kicking you guys out and moving into your home. What an A****** move. If my husband did that to me and my kids I would be furious. The affair is already a painful thing to accept but him treating the family in this manner is crazy to me.
You are a very strong woman and I am sure your children are proud of you. Good job momma!