Being offended if your spouse has "Feelings" for other people is a trap.  Telling your spouse the TRUTH about the feelings is a way to allow true freedom in your marriage.

I was a wandering spouse for a time or two.  BUT when my spouse had a listening ear and was willing to listen, these little feelings did not bother him or worry him.

In fact, I found that the truth helps me not to "hide" behind closed doors.  I didn't need to tell the community about my feelings and behaviors, but a listening spouse was the best thing.

My spouse was also a wandering spouse, but he has gotten away from that behavior and doesn't want to return to it.

Note: I stopped the physical relationship with AP, because I felt it wasn't right to be near a man who doesn't share similar moral values and conditions.  I recognized that as soon as possible.
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