In 1 week H and I will be spending 3 kid free days (he has to work 1 day) in the town where he spent his last night with AP2 7 months ago. We’re taking the RV they stayed in a nice hotel, a hotel he wanted me to pick for him. I told him I didn’t care where he stayed as long as he was alone, he promised he would be.
On that trip he accidentally called me and I listened to him and AP talking and walking down the street for 15 minutes, I couldn’t understand any of it but it was him and a female. I called and asked who he was with, he lied and spent hours that night calming me down. 2 days later I was contacted by AP and told the truth about who he was with. Lots of truth came out that night. That’s when things started to really change. I’m not sure he would have ever told me the truth if he hadn’t been backed into a corner. The whole thing was horrible.
I don’t think he has any clue how hard this trip will be for me but it needs to be done. We’re supposed to be there with the whole family in November but I’d be shocked if that trip doesn’t get corronacanceled.
Married 19 years
2 tween girls
Affair 1, 11/2010 to 2/2011
Affair 2, 6/2019 to 12/2019 - Persistent One is still trying to contact him.