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In general, I consider myself an honest and overly unselfish person. However, when I became a WS by taking a friendship with an also married OM to another level, I justified it on the grounds that his marriage was toxic and I felt completely neglected in my marriage. I justified it because there was some actual love and respect present. Was it the right thing to do? No. It was a cowardly way of leaving my marriage without actually leaving. The mind will find a way to resolve that cognitive dissonance.
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