I’m about 3 weeks from D Day, my husband of over 18 years had a 1 nighter in June and a failed second attempt in October which is when I cough the him in a lie he couldn’t explain. He also admitted a 2 ish month affair 9-10 years ago the same day. He’s willing answered a lot of questions and resisted others, the one he’s currently not answering is my request for names. I am working on a written list of things I want to know and things I absolutely don’t want detail on. I’ve told him can take a few days to respond maybe a week but the trickle of info is not helping.
I need help help with my list.
I want to know who, not because I want to contact them but to help understand what he was looking for.
I don’t want any detail of what they did or if he ever brought her home.
Interested in texts, FB messages and emails but see no benefit of reading them unless there is new contact.
Multitasking is making this hard, I welcome suggestions for both lists.
Married 19 years
2 tween girls
Affair 1, 11/2010 to 2/2011
Affair 2, 6/2019 to 12/2019 - Persistent One is still trying to contact him.