One item that I have starting using is a small camera from the car and also one I hold. She is aware that I am doing this and since doing so the allegations of me being aggressive and confrontational in face to face communication with her have stopped. It has not stopped her lying and blame shifting towards me and making excuses for her affair.
Clearly she is emotionally unstable and becoming more so every day. I suppose living life in a lie where she does not see her affair as the reason for our separation but exaggerated opinions and her rewritten history of our marriage is. Of course this is what she is telling her family and friends and needs these lies to hold up for her own reputation. As a result I can see paranoia setting in. She has mentioned to others that she feels that she is being followed, tracked, email accounts hacked, changed phone and phone numbers because of this false belief. I can't account for the actions of the OP wife though.
I know the truth will come out eventually but hopefully not at the expense and damage to our children.
Has anyone else experienced this type of behavior from their WS. I don't for second believe that she will return to me as it would appear that the tail she now has is far too big to fit back between her legs and accept the consequences.
I have noticed that she has begun listening to an audio book which I downloaded called, "I love you but, I'm not in love with you" by Andrew G Marshall. I have no idea why she would start this. It's not an accident as she would have to sync her second phone to the car and open the app and start playing it and is part way through it. I only found out this by accident when I started back on this book again whilst at the gym and it showed that she had been listening to it on her device.