Hi Hope4Healing....my husband has had an emotional affair (not too convinced its only that) for what turns out to be anout 18-24 mths....with my best friend! I live in a small town, so Ive worked not to approach her on it, but we have cut ties with her and family. My husband has told me he doesnt love me and clearly only with me at the momet as an obligatiion. Essentially ive lost, my best friend, all other friends, my husband and all that I had here in this small town, even my job will be lost (as we work together and he is my boss) - i will have to change job to ensure we have some space.
My question is...what to do now. I have handed him Tim letter and ive gotten a really half hearted reaction to it.
Does she know that you know? I think it would be hard not to confront a best friend about that, at least once, or write a letter.