Negarcia and Urban,
As I said above, to each their own. I'm certainly not making a judgement on when a BS should leave. That is a decision for each of us personally. Heck, I was one of those people that SWORE that if she ever cheated I would be gone in a heartbeat, but here I am. I only wanted to clarify, illustrate the utter cruelty of a WS telling their BS about how much they care about the AP, and that they aren't sure which person they want. I PERSONALLY would have chosen to leave, in that scenario but that is JUST ME. Anyone who chooses to stay in that scenario, I'm 100% fine with that.
To me it goes back to the WS making decisions to cheat, and all that comes along with that. These decisions greatly affect their BS. They do this without their BS's knowledge or approval. Then when the truth comes out, the WS is adding insult to injury to sit there and talk about how they care so much or whatever for thier AP is beyond cruel. Again "me" personally, I wouldn't have listen to a single word of it. But that is "just me".
Male BS, D-day July 2015, trying to stay out of the dark.....