Well, later I found out that his AP was VERY controlling about the sex and that he wasnt even sleeping with her at the point I was sleeping with him. He just portrayed to me that they were.
Not his best moment!!
It probably isn't as glorious as he is making you think it is especially if he is still with you and willing to be intimate with you. Some men like to rub it in your face. My husband did this to me as he was coming out of the affair fog.
Like I said, not his greatest moment. He has since apologized.
He just told me that it's different and she does things for him I stopped doing In our marriage, I think he is in love with her but is on the fence with his emotions. It's so frusterating to me but patience is what it takes. I think he doesn't want to leave due to the kids but I don't want him to stay for that reason. I know they have sex everything they see each other but it's not as often as I originally thought. I know I was harsh to him and critiqued him at times but he did the same to me. It's Easy to live my life when he is not here but sometimes I need him emotionally and he is so disconnected.