I met my husband over 11 years ago. We were young and we worked together for some time. We dated but nothing serious ever came from the relationship. About 7 years down the line, after children (the both of us) and failed relationships, we started dating and less than a year later, we were married. During this time, we had issues with him talking to other woman and and being inappropriate under their post. He's also deleted conversations with woman he was talking to. I asked him specifically to stop talking to 3 females and at one point I thought he did.
I found out he cheated on me by looking online and seeing messages he had with woman asking them to meet up, telling them he needed a girlfriend and how he didn't wan tto be with me anymore. I found this out in October and had spoken to one at the time who confirmed they started having sex in January. Found out they had sex in my house, she's gone to company picnics, and was even planning vacations to family reunions together. When his mother found this out, she was more concerned with how I get this information opposed to telling him he was wrong. I agreed to work it out but a month later, he stayed out until 3am and things went down hill again. Fast forward to April, I go back into his email and find that he's had relations with over 3 woman, he's bashed me to every woman he has spoken to and they all seem to feel the only reason he is still with me, is due to them telling him to work it out. Even the one he brought home said she told him to work out his marriage during the affair...
He claims to be so apologetic but honestly, I think he is only sorry he got caught because, had I not found out...he would have still been stepping out on me...How am I supposed to work some thing out with a man like him?