Divorcing does not heal the wounds. I am 8 months separated and I am still in pain everyday. He is with his AP, parading her around, bringing her to a family wedding after 6 months. The good thing is that I don’t have to see him, but I think about him all day everyday. I will never escape this. He texts me almost everyday, mostly about our children. They refuse to speak to him.
Iv304, my story is similar to yours, my daughter at age 20, lurked his phone, told her sisters 16 and 18... then waited 2 months until they were home from school to tell me. Jorge, you are correct, my girls have lost everything... respect for their dad, faith in love, marriage and relationships. I worry about them and how this will manifest itself in their future. They are ‘Children of infidelity’. They are forever changed just like we the betrayed. Ifidelity, the gift that keeps on giving. Iv304, how has your daughter and your other children dealt with this?
D-Day#1 Dec 19, 2017
D-Day#2 Jan 13, 2018 5 year “on/off affair” Separated Married 25 years, together 35