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I'm so fed up with all the crap. I'm tired of fighting for my marriage by myself. I'm ready for this to be over, but I really don't want to be a...
Started by Shayla in Confused About What To Do Next
I am looking for info from both sides-the ws and the bs. What helped you move forward after finding out about the affair? BS what was one thing that...
Started by Brandi in Rebuilding Our Marriage
We are 14 months post d-day. Can someone tell me what a normal marriage post affair is supposed to look like? I think I'm scared to move to a...
Started by AHmember113 in Rebuilding Our Marriage
I cheated on my husband. I was wanting to be with my AP but he ultimately didn't want me. I feel so many different emotions. I feel like my husband...
Started by Jujube in Confused About What To Do Next
If you’ve had an affair and have any thought of wanting to save your marriage, I would encourage you to start with this book: How to Help Your...
Started by TimT in I Cheated. Now what?
Well since I cant really find my way around the site too good Im gonna post a long post here. Sorry if its not appropriate. Ill keep it simple as I...
Started by mattdad84 in Tell Your Story
Hello everyone. I am so sad that we all are in this position that we need a support group for this but i am sure glad to have found this resource as...
Started by smorrow in Confused About What To Do Next
My husband and I haven't been making any progress in rebuilding recently, in fact it seems like we have taken several steps backward. He has...
Started by Shayla in Rebuilding Our Marriage
I came across this quote from the bible today. Now I'm not a person that reads her bible a lot, although I have a strong belief in God but I just...
Started by Anna26 in Rebuilding Our Marriage
Hi, im new not really sure where to start. About 4 years ago my husband was acting weird he was being very funny checking phone records clinging and...
Started by reneejohn10 in Tell Your Story
Hello, I new to this community and finally decided to post. I am the bs and 1 month out from dday. I have been married for 7 years to my college...
Started by ghea00 in Rebuilding Our Marriage
Sigh. I haven't been on here much our own little story took a turn for the worse. My husband is as I've posted before an alcoholic. He hadn't drank...
Started by Intuition77 in My Strategies for Survival
I've read TimT say so many times things along the line of, "You already know what you need. You know what makes you feel safe and what does not....
Started by SuzieQ in Rebuilding Our Marriage
It has been 8 months since Dday. I am as devastated today as I was the day I found out. My husband and I have been married 20 years. Together 22....
Started by MrsJMW in Tell Your Story
So this is my first post on here, so it may be long and all over the place. Sept 6th, my husband and I chose to live separate for awhile, just to...
Started by astar1007 in I Just Found Out
So in the thick of this, our 11-year wedding anniversary is Friday. We spent our wedding night at a quaint inn in VT. Every year we go back there for...
I think I just want to end this now. I don't know if I will ever fully forgive or trust again. Why continue if I feel that way? Any BS's here who...
Started by R2C in Separation
I have been listening to Steven Covey 7 Habits of Highly Effective people. In the 4th habit, Think Win Win, and habit 5, seek to understand. Steven...
Started by Kalmarjan in Rebuilding Our Marriage
After the affair came to light (and not all at once -after 3'weeks of denial) I flew off the handle. Tore up wedding pictures, family pictures, etc....
I'm writing a manual of important steps for betrayed spouses to take after learning about the affair. If you a personal example that helps...
Started by TimT in Betrayed Partner Testimonials
Just a question to the community as a whole, both BS & WS input is appreciated. What is No Contact exactly? Is it simply no phone calls, texts or...
Started by R2C in Rebuilding Our Marriage
Hello. I cannot thank you all enough. I am new to this site and I have really felt a lot of comfort in reading your posts. We are 3.5 mos from DD. My...
Started by smorrow in Rebuilding Our Marriage
ENOUGH TIME + THE RIGHT STUFF = TRUST It's not uncommon for people (especially the unfaithful partner) to expect a quick return to trust once...
Started by TimT in Trust
It's been year since I see progress yet at the same time hesitant to invest all in! I've heard all the right things but senses are Honed to...
Started by Tim2014 in Rebuilding Our Marriage
Where do I even begin? Today is my daughters sixth birthday. I found out my husband had an affair 7 weeks ago. He didn't admit it. I found a credit...
Started by Brandi in Tell Your Story
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