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I just ended my Affair -

Hello -I am a female. I just recently ( 3 months) reconnected with an affair I had last year. My husband forgave me and has let it go with very...
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Started by Ocean in Unfaithful Partners Testimonials
The Hacking of Ashley Madison

ASHLEY MADISON: THE FANTASIES GET REAL For years, I have refrained from even mentioning the Ashley Madison (AM) services in my articles or blog...
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Started by TimT in Online Affairs
Blindsided, but not really, and now what next?

I have struggled with anxiety (while appearing outwardly calm, commanding and very high performing, successful) for my whole life, and the heart of...
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Started by Alex1345 in Tell Your Story
There was more

Yesterday my husband came home from work upset. I got him to tell me that he had started reading a section of a book ( The Power of a Prayer to...
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Started by Shayla in I Just Found Out
Had a realization

I came to the realization that the second affair with all the blame shifting was easier for me to move forward, this time with my husband taking full...
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Started by Shayla in Rebuilding Our Marriage
When should separation be considered?

If a couple has any hope for saving their marriage/relationship on the other side of an affair, I generally encourage them to stay together, even if...
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Started by TimT in Separation
What happens when your spouse won't talk...

Okay gang, I want to throw a question your way about connecting on an emotional level with your spouse. My husband has always had great difficulty...
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Started by Anna26 in Rebuilding Our Marriage
First MC appointment coming up

Not really sure where to put this post. Our first MC appointment is this Wednesday. I'm feeling really anxious about this appointment. I've never...
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Started by Shayla in Rebuilding Our Marriage
Feel like control is testing me today...

Here's the dillemna... My wife is very controlling. OCD almost. It comes with her way of dealing with issues that she grew up with. I can usually...
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Started by Kalmarjan in Rebuilding Our Marriage
My Story and the mistakes I made

The following account will reveal the damage I have done. My Wife and I have been married for 19 years, been together for 23 years and have known...
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Started by Crawl71 in Tell Your Story
Cheating from a distance

Today's technology allows for easy access to online relationships. These relationships can vary in many ways: some involve only writing through...
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Started by TimT in Online Affairs
Did Facebook have a part in your affair?

I often hear about connections made on Facebook... affairs that were either started, maintained, or even exclusively conducted on this social...
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Started by TimT in Online Affairs
My Friends, Our Friends, His/Her Friends

I haven't seen much on this topic, but I'm going to throw out a few things: I'm an introvert. Over my lifetime, I've worked on meaningful...
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Started by CrippledLamb in My Strategies for Survival
Discovery of Another Affair

My husband and I were married in 2003. We also had our first child that year. We had a really good relationship and were very supportive of each...
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Started by Shayla in I Just Found Out
Why You Made Your Choices

Note: I'm looking of input regarding the experiences of the unfaithful partner. Some contributions may be quoted in an affair recovery manual I am...
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Started by TimT in Unfaithful Partners Testimonials
Ultimatums

Any thoughts on ultimatums? About 10 months from Dday, wife's affair with coworker. The AP is now divorced (I told his wife when they were going...
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Started by bobiv117 in My Strategies for Survival
Should the betrayer expect forgiveness? Should you give it?

They unfaithful partner usually wants it, but they cannot demand forgiveness. It is your gift to give or withhold. But whether or not they deserve...
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Started by TimT in Forgiveness
Helping Your Spouse Feel Safe Again

Note: I'm looking of input regarding the experiences of the unfaithful partner. Some contributions may be quoted in an affair recovery manual I am...
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Started by TimT in Unfaithful Partners Testimonials
Should you expose your partner's affair?

New to site and looking for help.....D-day was pre Christmas so we are now 6 months on and, in many respects, all things considered, getting on well...
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Started by Stashh in Tell Your Story
Deciding between your spouse and the affair partner.

Note: I'm looking of input regarding the experiences of the unfaithful partner. Some contributions may be quoted in an affair recovery manual I am...
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Started by TimT in Unfaithful Partners Testimonials
Article: Creating a Home Alone, After Divorce

Beginning of the article: After my husband moved out, I didn’t want to stay in our four-bedroom townhouse in Hoboken, New Jersey, but I couldn’t...
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Started by TimT in Divorce
Affair Recovery Counseling

Note: I'm looking of input regarding the experiences of the unfaithful partner. Some contributions may be quoted in an affair recovery manual I am...
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Started by TimT in Unfaithful Partners Testimonials
Establishing Necessary Boundaries

I'm writing a manual of important steps for betrayed spouses to take after learning about the affair. If you a personal example that helps...
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Started by TimT in Betrayed Partner Testimonials
Helping your spouse understand your pain

I'm writing a manual of important steps for betrayed spouses to take after learning about the affair. If you a personal example that helps...
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Started by TimT in Betrayed Partner Testimonials
Considering all your options after finding out about the affair.

I'm writing a manual of important steps for betrayed spouses to take after learning about the affair. If you a personal example that helps...
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Started by TimT in Betrayed Partner Testimonials

I just ended my Affair -

The Hacking of Ashley Madison

Blindsided, but not really, and now what next?

There was more

Had a realization

When should separation be considered?

What happens when your spouse won't talk...

First MC appointment coming up

Feel like control is testing me today...

My Story and the mistakes I made

Cheating from a distance

Did Facebook have a part in your affair?

My Friends, Our Friends, His/Her Friends

Discovery of Another Affair

Why You Made Your Choices

Ultimatums

Should the betrayer expect forgiveness? Should you give it?

Helping Your Spouse Feel Safe Again

Should you expose your partner's affair?

Deciding between your spouse and the affair partner.

Article: Creating a Home Alone, After Divorce

Affair Recovery Counseling

Establishing Necessary Boundaries

Helping your spouse understand your pain

Considering all your options after finding out about the affair.

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