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61 18 "The Recovery Room" Podcast
by Invisible
     Forum Info
MEMBERSHIP INFO
Q&A about joining the AH Community.
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4 2 New member
by Mklady531
Forum User Guide
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5 5 Abbreviations
by TimT
     Recovery Resources
Free Downloads
Downloads provided for free to AH Community Members. Member recommended resources or uploads should be entered into the Recommended Recovery Resources forum.
15 13 Free eBook Downloads
by TimT
Recommended Recovery Resources
Books
Viewable by Members Only (Books public) Members share helpful affair recovery resources (books, media, programs, counselors, etc.). Upload resources as long as you have the rights to do so. [Attachments Allowed]
149 30 Suggest a Book
by Invisible
     Dealing with an Affair
I Suspect an Affair
Discussions related to having suspicions about a partner's unfaithfulness. Invited Participants: Limited to those who are wondering about a partner's unfaithfulness and those who provide helpful input/support. Defensive arguments from unfaithful partners should not be posted here.
107 7 Anxiety
by Marthie
I Cheated. Now what?
Discussions about the experiences and perspectives of the unfaithful partner. Invited Participants: Those who have been unfaithful. This forum is meant to be a place where honest questions and confusions can be worked out. This is not a forum for betrayed partners to argue or vent their frustration; there is another forum where you are encouraged to do that.
566 23 Waking up
by Keepabuzz
I Just Found Out
Discussions related to recent discovery or disclosure of a partner's affair. Invited Participants: Betrayed partners who recently found out (through discovery or disclosure) about the affair. Reasonable conversations, not arguments, are encouraged.
362 28 10 years in and 2 kids later
by Dirazz
Confused About What To Do Next
Discussions related to recent discovery or disclosure of a partner's affair. Invited Participants: Anyone who is stuck, uncertain of what they should do next in regard to personal or marriage recovery.
3124 116 Took a break....now I'm back
by Keepabuzz
The Other Woman/Man
Discussions related to the perspective and experience of the other woman or other man in an affair relationship. Invited Participants: Limited to the questions and experiences of the OM/OW in an affair and those who want to help. It is recommended that betrayed partners avoid this forum since it will likely trigger strong emotional reaction. The intent of this forum is to help ANYONE who wants it.
616 23 It takes two so why can't we ...
by AHmember113
The Fog of an Affair
Discussions related to the confusing mindset of the unfaithful partner, a state often referred to as "affair fog." Invited Participants: All who have interest in discussing or understanding the the ways an affair alters the participant's perspective.
369 12 Frame of mind
by Jak
Why do affairs happen?
This is probably the most earnest question asked after an affair, and there is rarely a single answer to it. Invited Participants: Anyone wanting to consider and explore the various conditions contributing to infidelity without excusing or shaming.
260 18 When Spouses Disconnect
by Siercot
Online Affairs
Discussions about online relationships. Posts in this forum should focus on the unique considerations required when dealing with online relationships. Invited Participants: Anyone who can constructively contribute to conversations related to this topic.
31 6 My story of being a betrayed ...
by Wc59
Emotional Affairs
Discussions about affairs that are primarily emotional. Invited Participants: Anyone who can constructively contribute to conversations related to this topic.
90 10 Common Denominator?
by UrbanExplorer
Sexual Affairs
Discussions about sexual affairs (that may be emotional as well). Posts in this forum should focus on the unique considerations required when dealing with sexual involvement. Invited Participants: Anyone who can constructively contribute to conversations related to this topic.
142 9 When a child is born as the r...
by raggedylaura
What about the children?
Discussions about ways children are effected by a parent's infidelity. Invited Participants: Anyone who can constructively contribute to conversations related to this topic.Open to parents and children (18 years and older) affected by infidelity.
203 12 Meeting the affair partner
by Jak
Forgiveness
Discussions regarding forgiveness after infidelity. Sincere discussion and even debate is encouraged, but personal attacks will not be tolerated.
276 24 Does the pain really go away?
by Invisible
Trust
Discussions about struggling with trust following infidelity. Sincere discussion and even debate is encouraged, but personal attacks will not be tolerated.
314 28 Sooo angry right now
by Paw
     Choices, Stories, Strategies
Rebuilding Our Marriage
Questions, comments, suggestions & resources relating to rebuilding a marriage after infidelity. Invited Participants: Individuals or couples who choose to work at rebuilding a wounded marriage. Those who have made other choices should not use this forum to argue against reconciliation efforts.
2083 142 Feel like I am going backward...
by Angelbroken26
Separation
Discussions related to separation following infidelity. Invited Participants: Individuals or couples who have decided to separate, temporarily or permanently.
361 28 Thinking about leaving my hus...
by Angelbroken26
Divorce
Discussions addressing issues related to divorcing or being divorced from an unfaithful spouse. Invited Participants: This forum is open to anyone interested in honest discussion related to divorce after infidelity. Rigid arguments (always divorce; never divorce) should be avoided.
284 23 Divorce Filed 3 days after DD...
by Freewill76
My Strategies for Survival
Members share ways to cope with the trauma of betrayal. Invited Participants: Anyone struggling to survive: those who need help and those who share what has worked for them.
600 27 What to do Now
by Marlin44
     Off-Topic Posts
Archived Topics
Affair Story Links
This is where the old discussions go... the ones we didn't want to delete even though they're no longer active.
47 11 No honor among thieves
by TimT


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